Opt to adopt

Many people choose to become parents by adopting a baby, either because they cannot have children of their own or because they want to give another child a home and family. So what does adoption entail?


Opt to adopt

The adoption option

Adoptive parents overwhelmingly report experiencing tremendous joy and satisfaction from adopting, and in most cases consider an adopted child as fully “theirs” as a biological child.

The decision to adopt is not taken lightly and usually involves much soul-searching on the part of the adoptive parents. There are many considerations including the race and age of the child, as well as the fact that you will have to undergo intense scrutiny to ensure your suitability as a parent.

The process of adopting can be stressful and frustrating, especially if it follows a long period during which a couple has tried to conceive and have had come to terms with not being able to.

Private adoption agencies offer services such as counselling of birth parents, counselling of couples, screening of applicants for adoption, adoption placements, international adoptions and home studies, family adoptions and post-adoption aftercare.

There have been many changes in South Africa regarding adoption in the past few years, including changing social and economic circumstances, birth fathers’ rights, a specified waiting period before finalising an adoption and the legalisation of abortions.

How does it work?

South African law requires that prospective parents be screened and every application is considered individually according to circumstances. The screening begins with an interview and involves a full psycho-social assessment by a social worker.

You will be required to furnish your social worker with various documents, your life history and photos of yourself. This becomes your profile and is subsequently used to match a child with the adoptive parents.

Once applicants have been fully screened and accepted as potential adopters, they are placed on a waiting list until a suitable child becomes available. The waiting period depends on what your parameters are in terms of the child you are looking for.

Closed adoption

In a closed adoption, the adoptive parents have no contact with the birth mother and it is only the social worker who deals with her.

Open adoption

In an open adoption, the birth mother and the adoptive parents meet and have the opportunity to get to know each other. The adoptive parents also have a number of choices in terms of what they are willing to pay for and how they want to support the birth mother, including such things as court fees, social worker’s fees and medical costs.

As much as there are strict protocols and legal requirements, there is also a degree of flexibility that is supportive of the emotional and psychological outcomes of adoption. In some cases, the adoptive mother can opt to breastfeed with the help of medication and techniques to stimulate breastmilk production, and she can be present at the birth.

There is a window period of 60 days during which the birth mother can change her mind and ask for her baby back. This is a period of extreme anxiety for the adoptive parents.

Families often find themselves in circumstances where children need to be adopted by either step-parents or other family members. It is helpful to explore these issues with a professional person before embarking on the legal process.

What about the birth mother?

The decision to give a child up for adoption is heart-rending and takes great courage. It is important for the birth mother to avail herself of the counselling and other services available to ensure she gets all the emotional and practical support she is going to need.  

Adopting a child is a difficult process but if you are armed with the right information, a strong professional and emotional support base and the right frame of mind, the journey towards parenthood can be made much easier.

If you would like more information, support or to find a social worker in your area, please contact Adoption SA on 0800 864 658 or visit, or Trinity Heart: You can also click here for more adoption resources.

Please note that we cannot publish any contact details in the comments below, for your own safety. Whether you'd like to give your baby up for adoption, or want to adopt a child, always work through a social worker.

Disclaimer: The advice on this site is for information purposes only. Please consult your health professional.

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Comments - 244 comments

Marinda Nortje

Good day ladies. My husband and I have been trying to fall pregnant for the last 6 years with no luck after loads of treatments ext... we would love to start a family and adopt a white baby. If there is any ladies out there that would like to give up their baby for adoption. Please will you come in contact with me. Or maybe an adopting agency that can help us. We would really appreciate it. We recide in Mphumalanga but will travel anywhere in South Africa to meet mommy and be there for her in this difficult time for her. You are welcome to contact me on 0795534337 or email me on Good luck to all the pregnant mommys out there and all the couples like us who want to start a family. I know how difficult it can get sometimes . Lots of love. Marinda
Posted on Tue, May 19th 2015, 21:35


Hi we are looking to adopt a Indian baby in pmb. We have lots of love to give. Due to a medical condition I cannot fall pregnant.
Posted on Fri, Mar 13th 2015, 16:58


Could you please assists on how we could adopt a 2 - 4 month old Muslim girl baby in south Africa . And who do we contact and which organizations deal with this and the requirements and process that requires to be followed .
Posted on Wed, Feb 4th 2015, 09:40

Liesle Brandt

Hallo who can i contact in Cape Town Regarding adoption. Liesle
Posted on Wed, Jul 16th 2014, 14:05


Hi we would like to adopt a baby girl, if there is anyone out there who wants to give up their baby, Pls let me know. We are have so much love to give and would love if u would bless us with this wonderful gift We live in Johannesburg and are indian.
Posted on Sat, Jun 28th 2014, 11:06


Hi, my husband and I are researching adoption in South Africa. I am 28 years and my husband 30 but due to health issues I get miscarriages. We have been told there are no white babies available to adopt in SA and we might as well give up! Is this true? We dont know which way to go from here.
Posted on Sun, Jun 15th 2014, 17:08

Shimoné en Johan Volschenk

Wil graag meer weet oor adoption en wat ons moet doen om te kan adop Baie dankie Shimoné
Posted on Tue, May 13th 2014, 14:09


My husband can not have kids so we have been trying for 4 years now, we have been threw IUIs and IVFs and its very costly every time, we feel that we can help a birth mother bring a child into the world for us to look after than always having only 35% chance of falling preg threw fertility clinics. We are open to foster and adopt please help us
Posted on Tue, May 6th 2014, 14:45


Hi, I'm a white 30 year old woman. I reside in Randburg. I have 2 boys 7 and 9 years old. I stay with my best friend who is like a mentor-mother to me. We are a very happy and stable family. I am studying social work and am a au-pair for 2 other children. I would love to adopt a coloured baby girl if possible I know that our family is ready and able to care for her and we have so much love to give. As I mentioned I would love to have a daugher of my own. Regards,
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Posted on Tue, Apr 29th 2014, 09:09

Miss Moatshe

I'm a 20year old black woman. I am 19weeks pregnant and I would like to give up my baby for adoption. I am from Pretoria
Posted on Fri, Mar 14th 2014, 02:29


Sharing our family wish to adopt is very exciting !!! My Husband can't have children , so we have started our adoption journey❤❤❤ we have been married 6 years and are very stable in life. If interested in speaking with us please email us or message back!
Posted on Sat, Feb 22nd 2014, 18:25


Hi, my husband and I have been married and trying to conceive for 10 years now, but with no success. We are both 37 years old. Its really tough because all I want is to be a mother so badly. My husband and I will give a baby a loving and stable home. I know we will be good parents because we have so much love to give a child. I have no siblings and have lost both my parents, and i feel that I will be able to give all my love to a child. I will then have my own little family. We would love to adopt either an indian or white baby. Please if anyone wants a loving home for your baby, with a mother that will focus all her attention on him/her, please contact me or post a reply on this website.
Posted on Mon, Feb 17th 2014, 12:57


Good day, Who do I contact in Nelspruit, Mpumalanga to assist with the process of adopting a child? Kind regards
Posted on Mon, Jan 20th 2014, 16:12

Anel Detering

I want to adopt a new born baby girl. Who can i contact???
Posted on Thu, Jan 9th 2014, 20:56


Hi I am currently pregnant 4 weeks and I am considering having an abortion as I can't pay for the hospital fees or check ups or the clothing changes as my belly grows and more importantly I can't provide for this baby and before any one starts judging me I did not just have unprotected sex and expected not to get pregnant me and my so called fiancé from the beginning saiid we want a baby then when I finally do get pregnant he says he doesn't want the child I also found out he is still married I was living in a house of lies I never knew he wants me to leave if I don't have an abortion I just have no place to go and I don't have enough money to move into my own place. I know he will also be responsible financially for this baby but do I really want some one like that to have any influence over this baby or have to raise the baby in an already messed up situation besides that I am not strong enough to do this on my own. I'm white he is indian which I am so sure would make for a beautiful little boy or girl. So I just wanted to know if there is a loving couple who is in the right position emotionally physically mentally and financially who would like to help me financially and see me thru this and adopt this baby growing inside me I was thinking abortion but I really feel that I should look at people that will be great parents and give the baby an operyuninty of life and the potential parents the gift of fulfillment. I just feel this is a baby not a pet you shouldn't have to ask can we keep it and I prayed so hard to be pregnant so I want this baby to have a family he or she is a gift My email if anyone wants to contact me is I am in South Africa
Posted on Thu, Jan 2nd 2014, 13:59


Hi how do one become involved with a social worker concerning adoption private or open?I would like to get help with all the formalities like the screening process as we would like to adopt a baby girl or boy as our own to welcome them in our family
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farzana hassen

I would like to adopt an indian baby either from jhb or durban. Please help
Posted on Wed, Nov 20th 2013, 11:02


Good day, My husband and I have been trying for five years now to have a baby we have tried sperm donation as well as going through with inseminations and IVF (12) times with no success. Only to find out that I had endometriosis which caused me to have a hysterectomy along with removing the lining covering one of my kidneys, and a muscle to the uterus. We have since put in an application form to the CMR Middelburg, Mpumalanga for adoption, but they have turned me down saying that I am too old. They say that you are not to be older than 40 years of age, I turned 42 years a few days ago. I find this to be very unfair, they say that younger couples receive preference. Why I don't know, I just know that I could be a better mother to any child than some younger parents in today's world. Please help
Posted on Tue, Nov 19th 2013, 17:21


Hi, my husband and I are married for 12 years and no success of me falling pregnant we are financially stable we are looking to adopt an Indian baby. I assure you that baby will be well looked after. Pls contact me urgently
Posted on Thu, Nov 7th 2013, 12:27


Hi there im 23yrs of age nd going through a very difficult time being unemployed for almost a year nd couple of months i have a 2yrs old daughter nd my mom nd step dad want both out of us out house, been trying to get a job even doing peace jobs but nothing seems to cum together, i would like to get foster parents for my daughter people i can trust and have contact with pls. :(
Posted on Mon, Nov 4th 2013, 20:30


Hi. My husband and I have been married for 5 years. We don't have any success in getting pregnant and would like to adopt a white baby boy or girl. I don't know how any of this work. can you please help me so I can know where to start.
Posted on Mon, Oct 28th 2013, 15:16


Hi There My husband and I have been married for almost five years and would love nothing more than adopting a white baby girl or boy, a little angel, to raise as our own and give this angel a loving home with two loving parents and all the love and attention that he our she needs and wants. Anybody with information or anybody that can help please get in touch. x x x
Posted on Wed, Oct 23rd 2013, 16:08


hi, i am an 18 year old girl, 6 months pregnant and would like to give my baby up for adoption to a loving couple. plz contact me if u interested
Posted on Tue, Oct 22nd 2013, 17:45


Good afternoon, I need your assistance with adoption. Kind Regards,
Posted on Wed, Oct 16th 2013, 15:57


Am 7 months pregnant and looking for a good family to raise the baby my edd is 23 Dec
Posted on Mon, Oct 14th 2013, 08:47


i am 5months pregnant and the option of abortion is still lingering in my mind. i do not want to do it but i have absolutely no support system. what do i do, where do i get help.
Posted on Tue, Oct 8th 2013, 15:00


@Esmary Hi. Is there any reason why you want to give your baby away? My husband and i have been trying for 5 years, you name it we tried it. We are looking into adoption to give a child a loving and safe home to live in. I am very intrested, if you are serious please give some contact details so that i can get hold of you, but it has to be legal please. Looking forward to your positive responce.
Posted on Tue, Oct 8th 2013, 09:42


I am a 28yr old and I am 5months.i am looking for parent for the baby asap.pls can a good loving family or parent get back to me asap. please
Posted on Thu, Oct 3rd 2013, 16:57


Miss C so sowi to hear all the unpleasantness in ur life.....but also thanking u of thinking of a beta home for soon 2b little angel.... any contact mail ady or? are u in cape town regent...
Posted on Wed, Oct 2nd 2013, 14:13


Hi, My husband and i are unable to conceive and would like to adopt a child. We prefer to adopt a baby girl. Please assist.
Posted on Sun, Sep 29th 2013, 22:59

Miss C

Am 30 yrs old single lady I have a son already bt currently pregnant with another baby boy (my family is causing so much drama about the pregnancy and I dnt wana bring the child to such mess family ) who I would like to give for adoption for a married couple who will give him luv tht I would given him
Posted on Thu, Sep 26th 2013, 15:05


Hi,TEBOGO 22yrs 5mnths pregnant and i am afraid to tell my parents bcz they will kick me out of their house if they knw.i lyk 2 gv ths child 4 an adoption and may i stay wth th person wh is interested in adopting th child until the due date
Posted on Wed, Sep 25th 2013, 23:02


Hello everyone, I am married with children and a nursing sister but unfortunately due to the fact that I have my own children no one will consider me as an option to be a mom anymore... My family and I have so much love to give, we are both in our 40's and working professionals... and would love to give a newborn baby girl a chance for a happy life... We live on the East Rand in Jhb... Please let me know if anyone is interested? Take care x
Posted on Mon, Sep 23rd 2013, 22:53

Priya Pillay

Hi I am looking to adopt an indian baby. My husband and I are financially secure and stable. I have great difficulty in conceiving and find this to painful. If there is an india woman out there who would like to give their child a stable home filled with love and care, please consider me. We would love to be parents.
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Posted on Mon, Sep 23rd 2013, 09:26


Hi. We've been struggling for over 5 years with infertility. We so badly want to have a child - to be honest we haven't decided on adoption - I've been so obsessed with having a child of our own flesh and blood that so far it hasn't even been an option, but now we may have to look at adopting as I have several fertility issues that we don't even know if assisted conception will be successful. We are both fulltime employed, non smokers, non drinkers. The child would be raised with Christian values. Would like white baby, gender doesn't matter. Johannesburg area. I so desperately want to be a mother it is all I can think about. I just want to know more about the whole process - how long it takes, what are the birth mother's rights, what are our rights, what are the costs and above all... it MUST BE LEGAL!
Posted on Fri, Sep 20th 2013, 21:02


I am a single woman 38 years of age, in 2002 was diagnose with endomytriosis and had to undergo a major operation to remove the womb and uterus, so yes I cant have children.Early this year was even worse the tumour moved to the overies so chances of me are zero, I would love to adopt a child that I will raise as my own. Challenge in SA most places want me to be married to be able to adop.
Posted on Thu, Sep 19th 2013, 15:04


I'm 4months pregnant and I need to give the child away, but I want to stay with the family till I give birth
Posted on Tue, Sep 17th 2013, 09:54


hi,i am 7 months pregnant and i have a 1 year baby boy my mother will be so dissapointed when she finds out that i.m pregnant again coz shes a single parent aint working but helps in every way that she can with my baby boy so i.d like to give away the baby for adoption and a place to live until i give birth,please contect me if you intrested,i went to check if its a boy or girl apperently its a baby girl(black)...please contct me.
Posted on Wed, Sep 11th 2013, 11:54


Hi Zintle, I am very interested in talking to you. How should i contact you? Please let me know. I have not been able to concieve and would love a child to call my own. Thank you very much.
Posted on Tue, Sep 10th 2013, 10:29


We live in the UK but I am a South African citizen. My partner and I are unable to have a baby naturally. Are we able to adopt a baby from South Africa and what is the procedure? Many thanks.
Posted on Fri, Sep 6th 2013, 16:22


Hi me and my fiance have been trying to concieve for 2 years now but he has problems with his sperm.we would love to adopt a white baby girl or boy trough open adoption plz let me know
Posted on Tue, Sep 3rd 2013, 19:49


Hi Mandy My husband and I are looking to adopt a white baby because we have not been able to have our own children, please contact our social worker, Dr Heather Rauch in PE, on 041 581 5300 if you're interested. Thanks, Debbie.
Posted on Tue, Sep 3rd 2013, 13:56


Hi there, i am a 30 year old indian woman looking for an indian unborn or new born baby. if you know of anyone please contact me urgently. thank you
Posted on Tue, Sep 3rd 2013, 12:36


hi there, tina, please can you get intouch with me. i am looking for a indian baby. i was told that i will not be able to carry my own as it is very risky for both me and the baby... i will give this child a good home and lots of love. i really want to be a mother. please contact me please.
Posted on Tue, Sep 3rd 2013, 12:33


Hi. My name is Veronica. I have longed to b able to b a mom to a baby Girl. I have 2 boys 18 and 15! I love them with every cell in my body. I have a need to give a little girl an opportunity to b loved and taken care of. I miscarriages a year ago feel I am no longer able to carry a healthy baby. I am a woman f GOD. And I know HE will bring me together with the right situation. I have flexibility and opportunity to offer a good, wholesome dedicated Christian life together with my sons. If anyone has a white baby girl. CALL ME PLS....
Posted on Sun, Sep 1st 2013, 15:04


Hi Mandy, My husband and I are intrusted in your baby. We had some bad luck with our pregnantsie and it will bring us great JOY to give this little one a home. Please let me now what you think! and then we can discuss this a little more. Thank you and good luck.
Posted on Sun, Sep 1st 2013, 14:00


Hi al am 22yrs of age nd am 4months pregnant am single and lonely and I would love 2 give out my baby for adoption if any one is intrested in having this baby please dont hesitate to contact me
Posted on Sun, Sep 1st 2013, 08:02


Mandy my husband and I are very interested and would like more information. Please get back to me if you are still looking for a family for your baby.
Posted on Sun, Sep 1st 2013, 01:19


Hi im a 22 year old black female and would like to give my son up for adoption, he is four months old. We in gauteng
Posted on Sat, Aug 31st 2013, 08:54


Hi. Am a 22 years old single mother. I already have a child and i am pregnant again I am looking for someone who can adopt my coming baby. I am due in february 2014 but my problem is that at home they will kick me out if they found out that i am pregnant again so i need a place to stay until i give birth and give away the baby..........i will be happy if someone is willing to help me with a place to stay and also adopt my coming can email me
Posted on Fri, Aug 30th 2013, 03:49


Hi all, my husband and I have fertility problems and would love to adopt a white baby in South Africa. Please get hold of me if you know of any teenager or young girls that's giving child up for adoption. Thanks
Posted on Thu, Aug 29th 2013, 10:51


Morning I know the most amazing couple that would love to adopt a white baby in SA. Please let me know of any teenager or parents that are looking to give a child up for adoption. This family is truly amazing and would make the most wonderful parents. Thanks
Posted on Sun, Aug 25th 2013, 08:17


Hi I am looking for a healthy white baby girl for my husband and I.
Posted on Thu, Aug 22nd 2013, 15:52


nikki or shaz hey girls im interested in having a child if you dnt mind please give me a baby one of you i cant concieve im receptionist my partnet has a business pc shop. please help. lv u lot god bless
Posted on Thu, Aug 22nd 2013, 11:21


Hi I would like to gt hold of Nikki who is for some one to adopt her baby pls pls call me on 078665950 aliya
Posted on Wed, Aug 21st 2013, 21:48


Good day, I would like to give my baby up for baby is due 21 September 2013. Please contact me if you intrested. Or leave a number where can contact you.
Posted on Tue, Aug 20th 2013, 14:57


I am a 19 year old black female based in Johannesburg, who is due next year March. Any couple who is interested in adoption please contact me or leave your contact details.
Posted on Fri, Aug 9th 2013, 10:24


Hi all my husband and I have been married for 5 years and have fertility problems, we would love to give a unborn baby a good home full of love and support. looking for a new born baby or twins pls mail or phone me 0833135419
Posted on Thu, Aug 8th 2013, 21:08


Hi, I'm 5 months pregnant. I'm giving a baby for adoption 4 any married christian couple. I'm black n the father of the child is coloured. If u are interested, u can contact me.
Posted on Thu, Aug 8th 2013, 17:06

Monica Maseko

Hi I a mother of 15yrs old daughter looking for a couple that can take care of my daughter . I'm not working and my husband too not working.
Posted on Thu, Aug 8th 2013, 12:30


I am black dnt know the sex of the baby so if ani parent is interestd in an open adoption and has a social worker working with u or you have been aproved plz leav ur email adress il email u time is against us coz i want 2 give u da baby imidiately afta birth.thank you
Posted on Wed, Aug 7th 2013, 13:37


Hi. Im a single 28year old single black male and are looking to adopt a black boy. must be dark in complection as I am and are a working professional. would like to give a child an opportunity to be loved and natured. Please contact me if you can help.
Posted on Tue, Aug 6th 2013, 15:52

noluthando tsutsu

hi i am from the eastern cape and am married we have been trying to conceive for the past four looking for other alternative ways to become a parent.please can you help me in finding a place that can help us.
Posted on Sat, Aug 3rd 2013, 20:17


Hi my husband an I have been married for one year and we are looking to adopt a white baby boy or girl. We both love children so much and we have been praying to find a baby for months now with no luck. If there is anyone that can assist us and help us in answering our prayers please contact me. We will give your baby a good, secure, loving and caring home.
Posted on Fri, Aug 2nd 2013, 16:06


im married for 5 yrs and having been trying and no luck we are looking to adopt a newborn baby girl we are based in jhb and would love to give your unwanted baby a loving and secure home pls feel free to contact me
Posted on Tue, Jul 30th 2013, 14:17


After much soul searching and prayer and 5 years of trying to have another child and many miscarriages, we are at last being screened as an adoptive family. Our son longs to have a brother or sister. If we can give your unborn baby or young child a home and a family and you can help God to answer our prayers. Please consider contacting Margate Child Welfare, KZN, there is an excellent social worker who can assist.
Posted on Mon, Jul 29th 2013, 14:30


Hi Xian!! If you are still going through with your decision to adopt your baby...please consider us. How do we contact you?
Posted on Wed, Jul 24th 2013, 21:49


I am 18years old and live in Malawi. i would like to have a family that i deserve.i would do anything.anyone willing to adopt me can contact me.please help me.God bless anyone willing to take me as there daughter.
Posted on Wed, Jul 24th 2013, 11:25


XIAN - has anyone contacted you yet? I am interested in adopting. Please let me know
Posted on Mon, Jul 22nd 2013, 16:07


Hi I live in Durban and am married to a wonderful man and we both would love to adopt a little baby after being told that we would not be able to conceive naturally which we have tried for 7 years now including a few unsuccessful IVFs. We both love and adore children so much and would love to bring in a precious little one into a warm, caring and secure home. We would be willing to travel for our little bundle if need be. We pray that God answer everyone's prayers on this type of journey and grants ease on both ends of the spectrum for both the biological parents and adoptive as well. Ameen!
Posted on Sun, Jul 21st 2013, 12:50


I stumbled across this website after another trp to the doctor, only to be told that my lady bits still aren't working.Ifelt so emotional as I read through these post when I recognised the same desperation my husband and Ifeel. We have only been married 4 months, but have been together for four years.we waited to get married till I finished my degree, tillwe could support the family we have always dreamed of. I am a teacher at a private school and he is in the hospitality industry.we have 2 dogs and a cat and have been waiting for God to bless us with a bundle of joy. People keep telling me to wait, that miracles do happen and that God will bless us when the time is right. Its a tough thing to wait for. But we keep hopeful. We spoke about adoption recently and a new spark of hope has been ignited in us. If there are girls who are looking for adoptive parents for the unborn or infant children, please get in touch with me.Iam still reading the literature and am not entirely sure what steps should be taken but rest assured, we would do anything to be able to become parents.
Posted on Sat, Jul 20th 2013, 20:16


im 37yrs i need to adopt new born twins if possible,problem is that i cnt concieve i have pemature overies,plz if u can help leave ur post or let me now
Posted on Sat, Jul 20th 2013, 00:13

Erika Goffin

I am a 33 year old mom of 2 wonderful little boys. My husband and I can't have anymore kids ourselves, but we very much want a baby girl. I have always wanted a daughter. We are trying to adopt but cannot afford the last 10,000 dollars so far. We are not rich but we are full of faith and love. We are a happy family. Our food is great and our home is clean. If anyone knows of a way for us to find our money or knows of a baby that needs a mama, any race is lovely btw :), please let us know. God bless.
Posted on Mon, Jul 15th 2013, 22:53


Hi am a lady 2months pregnant i would like a man who will take care of me n my child..all ag e considered am 22 as soon as possible
Posted on Mon, Jul 15th 2013, 10:51


I would love to raise a newborn or small child under the age of 5years, please contact as soon as possible.
Posted on Fri, Jul 12th 2013, 05:11


@Xian, my husband and I are very interested in adopting baby, please is there a way I could contact you. Let me know, we will be able to provide a good life for either him or her.
Posted on Thu, Jul 11th 2013, 11:57


I am 37 years old black and i have been trying to conceive for the past 7 years, with no lucky. I am looking into adopting a little baby girl preferably a newborn child to raise with lots of love and happiness and provide everything for her. If anyone is interested in contacting me please leave a message on this post so that we can be in contact.
Posted on Wed, Jul 10th 2013, 19:57


I'm almost 4 month pregnant already have some but not yet sure what baby to expect have so many problems and won't be able to take care of my coming baby..I just want him or her to have a better future and life.plss help
Posted on Wed, Jul 10th 2013, 09:50


Hi I am a 30 yr old Caucasian woman and my husband is 34, we have been married for 3 yrs. We have been trying to fall pregnant for 2 yrs, unfortunately no success. The problem is with my husband and it's been a humbling experience, we are a Christian couple and if God has a plan for me to love and care for a child born from another then that would be great. If there is anyone who has considered adoption for their baby. Please could you email me so we could chat.
Posted on Tue, Jul 9th 2013, 23:06


Hi Tina. We hope all is well with you. My husband and I are very interested in adopting your baby. We are married 9yrs now..soon to be 10yrs. We are both unable to have children and have been on an adoption waiting list since 2009. Even though we are financially secure, we just have so much love and time and attention to give and yes your baby will be raised in a gujarati home. So we ask that you please consider us. God bless you for making a brave and very emotionally difficult decision.
Posted on Sun, Jul 7th 2013, 08:49


My husband and I would also like to adopt a baby. If anyone has any contact with somebody that can help us it would be much appreciated. We have been married for Six years and gone for 6 insemination's. If it is possible at all we would love a white baby it does not matter about gender.
Posted on Fri, Jul 5th 2013, 12:19


Want a white baby girl newborn that teenager don't want no money involve will love her and give her all she needs please any teenager that can't look after baby. I will be honoured to raise her up as my own please contact me on my email thanks
Posted on Fri, Jul 5th 2013, 08:29


l would love to adopt an Caucasian unborn-newborn baby girl from anyone that is thinking about putting up there baby girl for adoption, you can contact me at putten at post dot com for more info, l hope to hear from someone soon. Thanks and God Bless You.
Posted on Fri, Jul 5th 2013, 05:54

Fathima Kajee

Hi Im looking to adopt a Indian baby. My husband and I are above average earners. We have been married for 10 years.
Posted on Wed, Jul 3rd 2013, 10:47

rajesh raghubir

Hi Tina, my wife and I have been trying to have a baby for ± 5 years now with no success. We have tried everything possible. We are above average earners and would love to adopt your baby. how do I contact you?
Posted on Tue, Jul 2nd 2013, 12:49


Hi Tamara. What area are you in
Posted on Sun, Jun 30th 2013, 18:27


Hi im about to be 18 and all I ever wanted was a baby I need to know if its possible to adopt at 17 if you have parental consent. my Parents are fine with it and I was curious. if not and I have to wait till im 18 or older that's fine but i was wondering if you have to have your own place to live or if you can stay with your parents seeing as we own the home and its in the will for me to have it. does anyone know what is required?
Posted on Fri, Jun 28th 2013, 00:02

Ashley Pringle

Hi Tamara, I am 35 married for 12 years and have children but have wanted another Baby for a while now, I fell pregnant but unfortunately had a miscarriage About 5weeks ago, I had a laparoscopy and was told the tubal damage is severve I would love to adopt, we are a christian family and I'm a qualified teacher that Has owned my own pre school for 14 years, kids are my life and passion Please get hold of me. God bless Ashley
Posted on Wed, Jun 26th 2013, 15:32

debbie delport

I hope this finds you well! My name is Debbie Delport I am 41 years old my Husband Sean just turned 42! We have been trying to have a baby for the last 3.5 years! We been 3 times for IUI and once for IVF. We desperately want to have a family! Please could you help us make our dream come true! We would love to adopt a white baby although we know their is just not that many available for adoption! We have prayed and cried to the Lord for a little one! We know God has a baby(whether it be white or mixed race) out there just for us! Please let me know what the procedures are, cost, etc God bless Debbie
Posted on Wed, Jun 26th 2013, 15:00


Tamara iam interested in adopting your baby girl iam a certified nurse assistant and will go through any requirements you suggest to be able to give your baby a loving home please contact me i would live to be of any support for you thank you
Posted on Wed, Jun 26th 2013, 00:04


Hellow iam 22 yrs old and am looking to adopt a baby girl i would love for you to contact me as soon as you can to talk alittle more thank you so much Email me and ask me anything you would like to know thank you.
Posted on Tue, Jun 25th 2013, 23:39


Hi Tina, Please could you contact me, I have a wonderful indian family who have been trying for years to no avail.
Posted on Tue, Jun 25th 2013, 09:32


I am looking for a white baby girl or boy. This baby will be given an amazing SA mom and awesome US dad. Please contact me if you are in need of a family that will look after you child in a safe and happy home
Posted on Sat, Jun 22nd 2013, 14:33


Hi Tina I am Indian married women looking to adopt a newborn indian baby . Contact me if u are interested please.
Posted on Sat, Jun 22nd 2013, 11:07


Hi. This is a message for Tina, my name is Tasneem and we are Indian. I suffer with endometrioses and having trouble conceiving really want a baby to love for the mere reason that I was also adopted and want to give the love that he/she requires and a family .I have a three bedroom house with a huge garden and a husband heart that is of gold .I am a accountant and my husband is in IT ..
Posted on Fri, Jun 21st 2013, 12:23


Hi all. I am a 29 yr old Indian lady. My hubby and I have been trying to conceive for 6 yrs now, with no luck. Please keep us in all of your prayers. We are now looking into adopting a little baby to fulfil our dream of becoming parents. We are preferably looking for a newborn child to raise with lots of love and happiness and to provide everything that the little soul desires. If anyone is interested in contacting me, please leave a message on this post so that we can be in contact. Also, I would like to really say a big thank you to all the brave ladies that did not opt of abortion as being a woman that really wants a child, I can not help but be sadden when ever I see a story about abortion. (previous posts not posted)
Posted on Fri, Jun 21st 2013, 09:29


Hi. I m 8 months pregnant. If any one family who want to adopt a child please contact but indian family
Posted on Fri, Jun 21st 2013, 04:18


Posted on Thu, Jun 20th 2013, 13:48


Recently found out I'm pregnant,lookin 4 a couple or single mum who want 2 adopt pls contact me my on pls
Posted on Wed, Jun 19th 2013, 06:52


Hi, We are interested in adopting a baby, white preferably, and preferably a girl, or twins. We are blessed enough to have had one child but we have been trying to have a second baby for years now and after infertility treatment and a miscarriage are now interested in adoption. Please would any pregnant mom consider us. My son prays every night for a brother or sister. Another baby would complete our family and fill the remaining emptiness in our hearts. Thanks
Posted on Mon, Jun 17th 2013, 17:25


Hello Tamera Please please contact me. I am looking to adopt a baby girl. Lots of love Barbara
Posted on Sat, Jun 15th 2013, 17:24


@ Tamara, my husband & I have been trying for 6 yrs now, to no avail. We are a very stable Christian couple, financially stable and are very very prepared to adopt your baby. It would make my life so complete. Please contact me asap. Txs
Posted on Fri, Jun 14th 2013, 22:28


I am single Motherof 1 , who wants to adopt twins(blacks) pls email me.
Posted on Fri, Jun 14th 2013, 17:12


Hi looking to adopt a newborn baby girl or boy . Preferably Muslim .
Posted on Fri, Jun 14th 2013, 10:04


I'm 30 weeks pregnant... Just found out at 28 weeks that I was pregnant... I'm having a girl.. Anyone serious about the adoption please contact me
Posted on Thu, Jun 13th 2013, 19:51


My husband and I are hoping to adopt. We are home study approved, licensed to foster to adopt. We are in our early thirties and Caucasian. We have been at this for years now and keep hitting walls. We can't have children and all I ever wanted was to be a mom and spoil some little miracle and give them a life and future that I always dreamed of giving this child I long to have. We recently were picked and after all was said and done and ready to go and I was told I would have a daughter, birth mother changed her mind. I understand her situation and anyone who is in this situation I understand the degree of hurt one feels. Anyone who is seriously looking for a loving devoted family that is truly committed to choosing adoption and lives in the US please please contact us. michellefejes at yahoo dot com
Posted on Sat, Jun 8th 2013, 21:54


Hello out there, my Husband and I have not kids and have tried IVF and it's failed as well as AI twice. We are a white couple who own our own businesses and are financially secure. We would like to adopt a baby, it doesn't have to be white. To us we would really like to be parents, to love someone, give him/her a home, teach him/her values and give the baby lots of love and protection. I have tow little Yorkies whom I love dearly, they fill a void but not the same as a baby would. I'm in my late 20's and my hubby in his 30's we have been married for 4 years. If anyone feels giving their baby up for adoption is this option, please could you consider us. Please email me on Chanique at thank you xxx
Posted on Fri, Jun 7th 2013, 20:10


My husband and I have been married for 7 years and are unable to concieve. We would like to adopt a coloured, indian or white child aged birth to 3 years old. We both enjoy sailing and going on day trips to game reserves and going fishing. We have so much love and stability to give to a little one and our hearts ache to do so.
Posted on Fri, Jun 7th 2013, 13:42


am looking for a couple willing to adopt a newborn child.
Posted on Thu, Jun 6th 2013, 17:04


Hi, my husband and I are looking at adopting a new born baby preferbly caucasion or a white baby gilr ,we have been trying for 2 and half years now and still nothing we have been together for 9 yrs and married for 5 we love each other dearly but all we need to make our family complete is a little angel.
Posted on Thu, Jun 6th 2013, 12:25


Hi I hv 3 yrs old twins boy n girl wld like married loving n caring couple to contact me on my Email. U cn send me yo contacts details on my Email address.
Posted on Thu, Jun 6th 2013, 10:57


Is there anyone still looking for a adoptive family for a Caucasian newborn boy or girl or twins?
Posted on Tue, Jun 4th 2013, 17:39


Hey, my husband and I are looking to adopt a newborn Caucasian baby or twins asap we have had 8 unsuccessful pregnancies and are anxious to start our family. I am a nurse and he is a officer in the army so the financial aspect is of no concern. If you are looking for a adoptive family please contact us at 910 336 9278 and we will be happy to discuss further or meet. Thanks.
Posted on Tue, Jun 4th 2013, 16:41

Tsakane Segale

my husband and I are interested in adopting a new born child. we would appreciate info with regards to the costs and the processes as well as the contact people.
Posted on Mon, Jun 3rd 2013, 11:10


Hi Pearl, did anyone get in contact with you regarding your baby?
Posted on Sat, Jun 1st 2013, 20:40


Hi all me and my wife is married for a10 years have 2 awesome boys and would love to adopt a white newborn baby girl . We are getting a above average income and can give her a above average living standard and a great future . We are willing to take the steps to adopt the little bunch of love so please feel free to contact me . Looking forward to love fans adore her
Posted on Sat, Jun 1st 2013, 19:30


Hi I'm a 43 year old married Indian lady with fertility related issues. (From Durban). Tried IVF six times without suceess,for seven years. My husband and I are looking for a traditional Indian/White surrogate who will help us via artificial insemination. Will be financially compensated. Kindly assist. Thank you.
Posted on Sat, Jun 1st 2013, 10:51


Hi we were struggling to concieve for a long while. We eventually adopted a baby girl and now thinking of adopting another baby boy
Posted on Fri, May 31st 2013, 15:30


I'm. A 17 year old girl,turning 18 in June. My mother is a single mom. My father died before I could even walk. My mother and I are considering adopting a baby. Seeing that she is a single mother,what procedures would we undergo? Is it possible to still adopt?
Posted on Thu, May 30th 2013, 08:56


Hallo - My name is Charmaine. We have been trying to conceive for a couple of years no...with no luck. We are looking to adopt a white baby, that we can love and look after as our own. Thank You.
Posted on Wed, May 29th 2013, 11:22


My husband and I are looking to adopt! Please read more about us at our website and contact us with ANY questions!
Posted on Wed, May 29th 2013, 02:53


Hi I am frm south africa in kzn. I am 34 yrs old and my husband is 41yrs. We are married for 14yrs and cannot conceive. We would lyk to adopt a new born indian baby or indian baby under 6 months old. I am a housewife and my husband is a traffic officer. Plz consider us if possible. We hope sumday our dreams of being parents come true
Posted on Tue, May 28th 2013, 21:38


Hello, My name is Fatima and my husband and I have been through six unsuccessful ivf's, We would love to adopt a white child( not necessarily a baby). We can offer a child a stable home , full of love and lots of cousins and uncles and aunts.God bless
Posted on Wed, May 22nd 2013, 16:10


Hi Tia. How do I get in contact with you?
Posted on Wed, May 22nd 2013, 07:25


Claudette im pregnant,due on 13th July this year and have decided to give away the baby to someone who'll be able to love and care for her.
Posted on Mon, May 20th 2013, 01:19


Shireen, contact me please, I am expecting a boy due 28 july 2013
Posted on Sat, May 18th 2013, 18:16

Chantel van der Westhuizen

Good day: I am in a homosecual relationship for the last 8 years and struggled to fall pregnant with artifical insemenation. We are looking to adopt a baby / child and only starting the process now. Could you please advise the way forward. Thank you and Regards.
Posted on Fri, May 17th 2013, 13:50


I am a lady 40 years old the mother of a 19 year old boy, and single, i am looking for a black new born baby girl to adopt, i am not planning to be married in the future, i have been raising my son alone, i am hoping to be given chance to adopt a newborn.
Posted on Thu, May 16th 2013, 11:37

Michelle van Niekerk

My name is Michelle - My husband and I have been married for eleven yrs and can not have a baby of our own. We have been through nine IVF's - all unsuccessful. We are desprately looking to adopt a caucasian baby. Like any hopeful adoptive couple we hope to adopt a newborn.
Posted on Wed, May 15th 2013, 23:25


Hi im 36 year old white lady my hubby 38 years. We want to addopt a child 6 months to 2 years. Pls contact me we will take very good care of your baby.
Posted on Fri, May 10th 2013, 13:54


Hy Saaj m a lady of 24 yrs nd i wiil like to give you my unborn bby im 8 mnths preg
Posted on Thu, May 9th 2013, 10:49


Hi do I get in touch with you? my husband and I are a gujrati couple and we are married 9yrs now.we are registered with a social worker and have been on an adoption waiting list for 4yrs now.please consider us.
Posted on Thu, May 9th 2013, 07:12


Hi saaj.. Am onlu 19 yrs old and in college am 7mnths pregnant and do not have a source of income,i wish i could be able to raise my babu alone but am unable i wish you would provide for my baby and love it as if it were your own i do not want my angel to suffer under mt care for i am helpless
Posted on Wed, May 8th 2013, 20:35


Hi, I am a 34 year old white lady. My husband (33) and I got married recently. We live in KZN. I am self-employed, work from home and my husband employed. I have two beautiful step children but unfortunately I had to have a hysterectomy at the age of 31. My health is now 100% but my husband and I are unable to have children of our own. We would love to adopt a little baby boy, white or coloured preferably. We are an English and Afrikaans speaking family. Please could you advise us on an agency to enquire at. Many thanks for your assistance.
Posted on Wed, May 8th 2013, 18:15


Hi all. I am a 29 yr old Indian lady. My hubby and I have been trying to conceive for 6 yrs now, with no luck. Please keep us in all of your prayers. We are now looking into adopting a little baby to fulfil our dream of becoming parents. We are preferably looking for a newborn child to raise with lots of love and happiness and to provide everything that the little soul desires. If anyone is interested in contacting me, please leave a message on this post so that we can be in contact. Also, I would like to really say a big thank you to all the brave ladies that did not opt of abortion as being a woman that really wants a child, I can not help but be sadden when ever I see a story about abortion.
Posted on Wed, May 8th 2013, 10:01


Hy Amanda im about to birth next month and i will like to give u and uor fiance my baby and i think you will be a good parents to that baby.If you are interested you can email me than ill send you my number thanks!
Posted on Mon, May 6th 2013, 10:26

Mujaahiedah Safodien

Hi Linda, my husband are married for 6yrs and we've just found out that we cannot concieve ,it was very devistating as you can imagine, We are not rich or anything special, but we both love children very very much as we both work at schools, he is a caretaker and I am a secretary. Please consider us as prospective parents for your unborn, it will make a world of difference to our lives as well as the childs, we will love and care for the child as if it were our own :) you can reach me on facebook. Thanks Linda or anyone else that's will to give there child a good home and life
Posted on Mon, May 6th 2013, 01:56


Hello. I am 31 years old and my fiancé is 33. We will be married soon and would love to adopt a child wether before or after the wedding. I have two children who are now 11 and 8 and we would like to add another child to our family. At the age of 24 I had to have hysterectomy and could nom longer fulfill my dream of having more children. We have so much love to give we would like to adopt so much and give a little bundle of joy a happy and loving home with loving parents and a big brother and sister that would be so excited to have a new member in our family.
Posted on Sun, May 5th 2013, 22:46


My husband and I have been married for 10 years and cant have children. We would love to adopt a white baby. How can we go about it? We stay in Durban, but are prepared to travel to pick up a little bundle of joy.
Posted on Sun, May 5th 2013, 17:17


27yr old lady and in 22weeks pregnant. I would like to give up my unborn child up for adoption to a loving married couple who can't have children.
Posted on Fri, May 3rd 2013, 08:56


Hi karment m expecting baby tis month n i would lyk to giv for adoption coz i wil not be able to raise da baby u can email me if u r intersted
Posted on Wed, May 1st 2013, 00:49


Hi im 26 weeks pregnant and would like to give my child to a loving couple that can't have any children plz contact me ASAP!!!
Posted on Mon, Apr 29th 2013, 23:37


We are looking to adopt a white baby, girl or boy doesn't matter. We will give him or her all the love they need. Contact me via email.
Posted on Mon, Apr 29th 2013, 21:17


Hy im 7 mnths preg nd i would like to give my baby to an African married couple around KZN
Posted on Sat, Apr 27th 2013, 12:49


U must go through a social worker, check There are families waiting to love your little bungles
Posted on Thu, Apr 25th 2013, 18:07


@Nomimi i can give u my contact details if you would like to adopt my baby thanks
Posted on Wed, Apr 24th 2013, 20:14


Hi Lee, im a 28year old coloured female. My husband and i will be married for 7 years and we have no kids, i had 2 ectopic pregnancies and the doctors told me i cant have kids of my own, we are looking to adopt a coloured baby, we have so much love to give and my heart longs to have a child and complete my little family, please contact me on 0786036364 or email me on, thank you
Posted on Wed, Apr 24th 2013, 12:28


How do we contact the mothers who want to give up their kids for adoption. There is a lot of young women on ths page that indicated they wanted parents for their kids
Posted on Wed, Apr 24th 2013, 11:10


Hi, I am a 38 year old single Pre Primary teacher. I am the owner of a Playschool and just love children so much. I am single and i would really love to adopt a white baby. I can promise you that if you do decide on me that your child will be in the best hand of growing up. Adopting a baby is a life long dream of mine. I am financially stable and with good morals and I can promise you that you will not be dissapointed in your choice. I am the best choice . You are welcome to screen me and have contact after the adoption. I want to give a baby the best life they will ever want and need. I have so much love in my to give.I just need to find a baby that I can adopt.i live in the Eastern Cape
Posted on Tue, Apr 23rd 2013, 16:38


Hi. I'm a 34 year old male married to a 31 year old woman. We have been married for nearly 6 years, unfortunately NO luck with kids. We do conceive, but apparently my wife cannot carry to term (4 miscourages). We are considering adoption. Please advise - what to do. Tnx
Posted on Mon, Apr 22nd 2013, 21:11


Hi im a 24 yrs lady n im 7 mnths preg. I like to give my baby to a black married couple who realy want a baby.I dont like to do an aborton and kill innocent child
Posted on Sun, Apr 21st 2013, 11:24

Tinka bothma

Hi ek is n opsoek na n as gebore dogtertjie kleur maak ni saak nie. Ek het al goot kinders maar ek is opsoek na my eie ou dogtetjie ek sou n mamageword vmy peet kind maar met ontstadighede het di mama anders besluit ek het n prag baba kamer wat stAan en wag vn bondeltjie liefde my arms bly op soek na my eie ou dogtertjie hoop daar is iemand wat my sal toe laat om di groot droom te laatwaar word met bai groot liefde wag ek op j my droom dogter xxxx
Posted on Sat, Apr 20th 2013, 11:19


Hi This is my 1st time on this website. I am in really position now,we have a 2 month old coloured baby boy,whos mother has deserted him in our care, she ran away on the 13/04/2013 without saying a thing, we want the best for him and would like him to go to a home where he will be loved and cared for dearly.Anyboby interested please contact me.
Posted on Tue, Apr 16th 2013, 07:57


@pearl. Where r you from? Email me on ? Are you coloured ?
Posted on Fri, Apr 12th 2013, 13:56


Hi Angela, We would like to addopt your babies we are already almost done with our screening process only one more step and it should be done any day now. Please contact me on 0724408283 if you would consider us or let me know where I can contact you. Marietjie
Posted on Thu, Apr 11th 2013, 14:13


@CiNDY yes that is possible. Facebook me on Zenobia1986 Im also looking for a baby around Durban
Posted on Thu, Apr 11th 2013, 14:00


Im looking for a baby to adopt any age and gender. Just contact me and we will take it from there. contact me if ur in the kzn.
Posted on Thu, Apr 11th 2013, 13:42


Hi I am 7months pregnant and looking to give my baby girl up for adoption as soon as it is born. I am black. If yu looking into adopting please contactme via email
Posted on Mon, Apr 8th 2013, 12:54

Candice Ridgway

A year ago we chose to adopt instead of having natural kids, BEST DECISION EVER
Posted on Mon, Apr 8th 2013, 08:47


Hello, I have a young 3month old baby girl and iv realised dat adoption might just b a suitable option for me since I'm a single mother nd if I can find da perfect coupe for her. She is african, isn't troublesome, ppl say I have the sweetest non stressful child, beautiful nd intelligent. Any1 who is intersted pls let me know. Not sure yet if I want closed or open adoption. Thanks
Posted on Sun, Apr 7th 2013, 17:34

Mrs R

Hi. We are looking into adopting an older white child. If possible a girl white anywhere between 3 and 8 years old. We have a 5 year old daugter. Can anyone point me in the right direction?
Posted on Sun, Apr 7th 2013, 11:57


Hi im 22 years old and im looking for a couple who can adopt my unborn bby, im 6months pregnant and my boyfriend and parents don't want this baby they wanted me to have an abortion bt i just can't kill an innocent soul so that's why i want to give away this baby, plz sumone help before they find out that i did not have an abortion.God bless thankx
Posted on Sat, Apr 6th 2013, 22:49

Annel Marais

HI Santash could you please make contact with me. Am interested in adopting your baby girl. Thanks
Posted on Fri, Apr 5th 2013, 09:05


Hi there We are new to this website. We would really love to adopt a white baby girl or boy...even twins. :-). WE absolutely love children and we both come from loving, caring families and grandparents waiting to share their love with little ones too. :-)
Posted on Sat, Mar 30th 2013, 14:07


Want to Adopt baby girl white newborn whithout agency please contact me on my email
Posted on Thu, Mar 28th 2013, 20:26


Posted on Thu, Mar 28th 2013, 09:28


What can I do,I have two kids who I cant support their father ran out of our lives,I couldn't finish my matric and I can't get a job I get frustrated and angry most of the time and end up beating them hard.I don't want to see them suffering that's why I want to give them up for adoption to parents that can look after them.*please help* I currently live in pretoria [Joanah, well done for realising there's a problem - you need to find help as soon as possible. Please try to get emotional support from a friend or family member, and contact SADAG Mental Health Line (8am-8pm) 011 262 6396 or Dr Reddy's Help Line (8am-8pm) on 0800 21 22 23. You can also try the Post-natal Depression Support Association of South Africa (PNDSA) on 082 882 0072 or 021 797 4498 or email For adoption, your first step would be to call Adoption SA ( on 0800 864 658. They can put you in touch with social workers who will discuss your options. This is very urgent. All the best on your road to recovery - and again, well done for being a good mommy and wanting the best for your kids!! - Sophia]
Posted on Tue, Mar 26th 2013, 14:55


Hello,im looking for dedicatedd,potential parents who need a baby urgently,im due this month
Posted on Fri, Mar 22nd 2013, 15:16


Hie im 19years old nd 1mnth preg my boyfriend kick me out and tell me he doesnt want me and my baby so he told me to have abortion i dnt want to kill innocent soul i want to give my baby to a needy family so anyone who is willing to tack care of this baby plis contact me
Posted on Wed, Mar 20th 2013, 14:10


can you send me the list of social worker's arround Lompopo so taht I and my wife can go there and do screening because we rae interested in adopting a new born baby girl up to six months of age, we will be very happy if we can get that information as soon as possible and it must be a close adoption
Posted on Wed, Mar 13th 2013, 20:45


we are a married couple for 7 yrs we are looking for a new baby born girl up to six months of age, race black, and this will be a close adoption
Posted on Wed, Mar 13th 2013, 20:26

Marietjie Boyes

Hi, My husband and I are looking for a baby/babies to adopt. We both are 38 years of age and are Christian.We have been married for 15 years. We are already undergoing the screening process at the moment and we can really provide for a baby and give him/her love and security and a solid foundation. If you are interested please Contact me on [withheld] or e-mail [withheld]. Please NO Scammers!!! (We are White/Caucasian)
Posted on Thu, Mar 7th 2013, 16:26

Tammy-Leigh Kruger

HI Angela, We are a lovely young couple, married for 7 years. we will be willing to adopt the twins. [withheld] Please provide [withheld]. i will contact you. thanks Tammy
Posted on Wed, Mar 6th 2013, 16:02


HI Angela, We are a lovely young couple, married for 7 years. we will be willing to adopt the twins. Please provide me with your contact details. [withheld]. i will contact you. thanks Tammy
Posted on Wed, Mar 6th 2013, 15:48

Els Botha

Hi all, My husband and I have adopted our first son in September 2011. He was almost 6 months old, I can't believe he's turning 2 already in April this year. We are now in the waiting period for a little brother for him.The only way to adopt legally in South Africa is by going through a state or private adoption agency. We've used PROCARE, they are based in Pretoria and in Cape Town. They help you through the whole, sometimes emotional, process. They also guide pregnant moms who've choosen for adoption. Take the first step and contact them !! Good luck to all of you !!
Posted on Wed, Feb 27th 2013, 08:36


Hi Angela, my husband and I can provide for twins. If you want to consider us for adoption, we can arrange for the necessary screening etc. Let me know if we should make arrangements through a social worker.
Posted on Mon, Feb 25th 2013, 20:18


Hi there...I'm 30weeks pregnant with far it looks like 2 girls. Unfortunately I've realized that I will not be able to give them the financial support, that is needed to make sure they have a good and happy life..I believe that God has bestoved this blessing on me, to give someone the gift of a child..I'm my case 2 of them. I have 2 boys already, and to be a single mother of 4 kids, is a selfish thing to do...
Posted on Sun, Feb 24th 2013, 16:46

martine vergara

we are willing to adopt a newly born baby regardless of gender.hope to hear from someone who is willing to have their baby adopted ASAP..pls contact us at this # [removed].
Posted on Sat, Feb 23rd 2013, 12:05


Good day, My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 10 yrs+ and is failing all the way. Had IVF and IUI treatment and no success. My heart is bleeding today to love, hold and care for a little life. We would like to adopt a little caucasian boy or girl from newborn to 6 weeks. We would provide a healthy, steady and most important loving home. We have so much to give, but cannot do it since we don't have any kids of our own. Thank you
Posted on Fri, Feb 22nd 2013, 13:41


good day i'm a 30years old female, i live in pretoria, i have a very good job, i have no children of my own and i would like to adopt a baby and give that little life a better future, please advise me on how to go about it.
Posted on Wed, Feb 20th 2013, 09:56


Marcia contact me [removed]. Would love to she with you and give your child a loving home with a brother. :)!
Posted on Wed, Feb 20th 2013, 03:43


Hi I'm 26 years old black gal from mpumalanga,currently im14 weeks pregnant,I won't be able to take care of the baby and I'm not working, I want a good life for this baby, so I would like to give it up for adoption,where can I find help around mpumalanga? Please help.
Posted on Mon, Feb 18th 2013, 21:07

Wilna Malherbe

Cindy you can phone [removed] for counselling and placement of your baby with loving family.
Posted on Sun, Feb 17th 2013, 08:20

Cone You can contact 0835334848 for professional assistant for counselling and a loving home for your baby

Conie you can contact [removed] for assistance in placing your baby with a loving family
Posted on Sun, Feb 17th 2013, 08:17


my wife and i can't bear child. we have a girl who is 16 now and would like to adopt a baby boy for s loving family. we are financially stable. my contact [removed]. i live in India. here's my contact link [removed]. thanks and sorry for my bad english !
Posted on Fri, Feb 15th 2013, 18:01


iam a lady age 21 from south africa, i am looking for couples who are struggling to make a baby of their own to adopt my 9months old baby, and that will love her as thier own and also financialy stable, please invite me on whatsapp [removed], mxit [removed], or face book me [removed] if it aint available [removed], please get back to me asap.
Posted on Fri, Feb 15th 2013, 14:31

Shelley Duck

my husband and myself have struggled for 12 years to have a child failed ivf etc, we are wanting to adopt a white healthy baby or toddler. We would be wonderfull parents with so much love to give, we have a wonderfull family which is a great support system to have. We would be able to provide for this child and ensure all its needs are meet love being the first. I am new to this and any guidence on a way forward would be great.
Posted on Tue, Feb 12th 2013, 22:59


Conies...hi!! Where are you from? You can find me on facebook....[removed]...inbox me. Thanks
Posted on Tue, Feb 12th 2013, 18:01


Hello. My husband and I have been trying for 9yrs now to have children with no success at all.we have tried fertility treatments/procedures and have been registered with a social worker since 2009. we would love to be parents to a baby (between newborn & 8mths old) who is of mixed race...either coloured/Indian...Indian/Indian....Indian/White..Muslim/Coloured....Muslim/Indian...Muslim/White. Words cannot express how much we long to be parents!! So we ask you to please consider us as adoptive parent. We promise to love and cherish your baby! We are not out to scam you but to ask you to trust us with the honour of being parents to a beautiful baby and raising your child as our own!! Thank you and God bless.
Posted on Tue, Feb 12th 2013, 17:38


Hi there...My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for years now but to no success....I am looking for an indian baby boy to adopt... He will be in the hands of a good christian family and be well taken for. .If anyone is aware of someone, please let me know...please no scams..this is serious stuff...thanking you kindly..
Posted on Mon, Feb 11th 2013, 15:22


Hi Conie, send me a mail, I would love to talk about adopting your baby. [removed] I am based in Joburg.
Posted on Fri, Feb 8th 2013, 08:20


Hi All. My husband and I are looking to adopt. We are fortunate enough to be able to provide a loving, stable and financially secure home. If you would consider us, please feel free to search [removed on FB or [removed].
Posted on Thu, Feb 7th 2013, 21:58


I am 3 months pregnant and not ready to be a mom again. Am 20years and already have 2 kids... How do i give my unborn baby 4 adoption.
Posted on Sun, Feb 3rd 2013, 20:45


Hi I stay in turffontein.. I would like u to email me how dose it work and stuff please thank you
Posted on Thu, Jan 31st 2013, 15:59

Delia Schoonbee - Waterworth

Good day, I hope you are well, Please could you assist me? I am currently volunteering at a Home for abandoned babies close to where I live and would like to ask if you could please advise me on the process that needs to be followed if I would like to foster or adopt one of these little ones? I do have biological children of my own and I am 39 years old and in good health, also a registered nurse. Any assistance you could give me in this matter would be highly appreciated. Kind regards, Delia [Delia, please contact Sharon van Wyk of the blog, or Adoption SA ( - they can help you with all info you need! - Sophia]
Posted on Thu, Jan 24th 2013, 06:32


Jennifer, please find me on facebook under Rejeane Jacobs as we would love to give your little angel a loving home.
Posted on Sat, Jan 19th 2013, 14:42

deidre de jesus

hi, myself and my husband have been married for 8 years, and cant have children. we went for IVF and very dissapointing to find out that it was negative. we live in south africa - boksburg. we got so much love to give, and want to welcome a little one to our family. we would like to adopt a little white baby boy or girl, from a few days old up to 1 month. please is there anyone out there that can help.
Posted on Fri, Jan 18th 2013, 16:24


my husband and I where whanting a child of ower own, but it seems like god had divirent plans for us. about a month ago we dicided to put all our dreams in a bag and lay it at gods feet and if the time was rite he wil provide for us as he sees fit! and he did we met a couple that had adopted from adoption 4ever and it happend to be something that we were gowing to do.and all we want is to be good parents to one of these children.
Posted on Mon, Jan 7th 2013, 23:41


I want to give up my baby for adoption,I'm currently 3months pregnant
Posted on Sun, Dec 30th 2012, 19:14


I need advise a.s.a.p reguarding giving a bby for adoption, bt stl wanna b part of him or her.
Posted on Sun, Dec 23rd 2012, 22:02


I have a 3 months old baby for adoption, he is medically fit and parent should be Christian and able to send him to school.and also provide him with the best in life.No scams please interested persons for more information and pictures of him. [Hi Jennifer, we can't supply your contact details here, sorry. Perhaps try a social worker?]
Posted on Fri, Dec 21st 2012, 03:03


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Posted on Sat, Dec 8th 2012, 02:15

sunny kumar

we want to adopt a baby male or female our contact no. is [withheld]. [- Please contact an SA adoption agency or see for more information. - Ed.]
Posted on Fri, Dec 7th 2012, 19:22

ifeoluwa aladeojebi

Hi am a nigerian. With a 5month pregancy any couple dat want to adopt. A child. Contactt me on facebook my name is [withheld] thanks [Please go through a South African adoption agency. Visit or for a list of reputable agencies. - Ed]
Posted on Wed, Nov 28th 2012, 16:44


I need help i have a 4months old baby boy and im looking for loving couple to adopt him around gauteng i dnt wnt anything just a loving home for my boy asap u can contact me on facebook my name is Ribs Flawless Rams. Thank u
Posted on Tue, Nov 27th 2012, 22:08

muller morgan

I am 6month pregnant now, due to some circumstances, i want to give my baby away to people who want to adopt a child. please any couples or parent willing to adopt a child is welcome. contact me via my phone [withheld] i am a UK citizen but live now in Bangkok you can email me at my email address : [withheld]. [We really cannot publish any contact details here. We urge you to contact a South African adoption agency. Good luck. x]
Posted on Mon, Nov 26th 2012, 14:02


To Miss K hi how r u , my fiance and i have been trying for a baby for afew years now we would give your baby a loving family home , we would like a closed adoption also, we live in Ireland so its not far for us to travel if u wanted to meet us . you can email me anytime at [withheld]
Posted on Wed, Nov 21st 2012, 01:01


My husband and I cannot bear children of our own and we are financially stable and able to provide a baby with all the love and care it could need and want. We live in a strong and beautiful community with wonderful schools and parks. I am on Facebook under Natacha Ruth Musser. We are willing to do either open or closed adoption. We live in Riverdale in Utah [USA]. The number you can reach me at is [withheld]. [Please contact Adoption SA at 0800 864 658 or, or Sharon van Wyk at for information. - Ed]
Posted on Thu, Nov 15th 2012, 06:08


hello, Good day, i gave birth and the child is 7 months but i can not be able to care for the child, i am looking for couples or single parent that is willing to adopt to help me and adopt this child. please contact me for details via email [withheld - Please urgently contact a social worker for advice! Sharon van Wyk can also point you in the right direction:]
Posted on Wed, Nov 14th 2012, 17:30


Hello, my husband and i would like to adopt a baby, we are unable to have kids of our own and would really be blessed if we could have a child in our life, if anyone can help or assist us on how or where to start it would really be apreciated.
Posted on Tue, Nov 13th 2012, 16:02


Hello, can any body help, i and my wife had been for past 7years without having a child. we adopted a child he is 3 years old now, God has bless us now and my wife gave birth twins, we don,t have enough money to care for three children. couples interested in adopting a child should contact us. Email [withheld - please urgently contact your social worker! - Ed]
Posted on Mon, Nov 5th 2012, 12:27


My husband and I have been trying to have a child since we got married, we have had 3 miscarriages. And each time my heart felt like it just broke a thousand times. We both love children very very much. Hubby and I are a mixed race couple and willing to adopt any race. My hubby and I are willing to have an open adoption where we will send u photos and keep u up dated as to the babies well being and development and even visits. And we are willing to settle any cost with regards to the birth and medical expenses. Please don't hesitate to contact or even call us with any questions. Or even send an sms and ill call you. [nr withheld]
Posted on Tue, Oct 30th 2012, 05:49


im four months pregnant, im 22 years old and live in brits in the north west.and i want to give my baby away to people who want to have a child.
Posted on Sun, Oct 28th 2012, 10:23

Lesedi Ramsley

My husband and i have been trying 2 have children for 4 years now with no luck,it does not matter what race the child is we will love him\her unconditionally.We are both financially stable and do not mind if u want communication with the child.Please feel free 2 get in touch with me on facebook by searching 4 Lesedi Ramsley.God bless u.
Posted on Fri, Oct 26th 2012, 14:29


hi, my name is cindy and I reside in Durban, I am 6 months pregnant and would like to give up my baby for adoption but to a Durban based family where I can see my son grow up. I am willing to sign a contract not to reveal my identity but be known to the child as a relative. is this possible?
Posted on Wed, Oct 24th 2012, 17:26


Lynn if you are interested in giving your baby up for adoption please contact me on... [Contact details withheld for online privacy & security - please contact Adoption SA for legal registered adoption facilitators who can help! So sorry but there are too many adoption scams for us to be able to connect people here.]
Posted on Wed, Oct 24th 2012, 15:20

Mrs P

Hi Sophia, please could you give Miss K, Lynn and Thato our email address as we are able to assist them with a solution to their situations. Please! Kind regards... [Hi Mrs P, I'm afraid we don't act as adoption agents or facilitators. Best thing to do is encourage them to go the legal route through social workers. Thanks for understanding.]
Posted on Wed, Oct 24th 2012, 15:16


Miss K, Adoption SA's website lists these professionals in the Eastern Cape: Berg-en-Dal Pregnancy Crisis Centre: 082 394 0792 Adoptions4Ever Mother Home and Private Adoption Agency: 084 580 3939/ 079 496 8753 Wilna Malherbe Private Practice: 083 357 4157 Child Welfare South Africa -East London Elise Morgenrood Private Practice: 083 659 1012/011 615 4160 Linda van Zyl Private Practice: 083 960 3612 Pearl Bletcher Private Practise Robyn Shepstone Private Practice: 082 200 3730 AFM Executive Welfare Council - Umephi (Head office)
Posted on Wed, Oct 17th 2012, 18:13


Thato, you can call 0800 864 658 and Adoption SA will give you a list of professionals in Johannesburg. Their website lists the following: Berg-en-Dal Pregnancy Crisis Centre: Crisis Number: 082 394 0792 Christian Social Council (CSC): Crisis Number: 082 394 0792 Adoptions4Ever Mother Home and Private Adoption Agency: Crisis Number: 084 580 3939/ 079 496 8753 Dr Marie Kruger Private Practice: Crisis Number: 083 272 8902 Sue Krawitz Private Practice: Crisis Number: 083 225 0551 Christian Social Council Gauteng East SAVF Zoë Cohen Private Practice: Crisis Number: 082 554 0625 Child Welfare SA Boksburg Child Welfare SA Roodepoort Elsabe Engelbrecht Private Practice: Crisis Number: 083 305 5095 Feroza Ismail Private Practice: Crisis Number: 082 554 1715 / 076 124 1440 Gretha Hannekom Private Practice: Crisis Number: 082 548 1184 Hester Burger Private Practice: Crisis Number: 83 922 2277 Julia Pienaar Private Practice: Crisis Number: 083 266 7508 Letitia van den Berg Private Practice: Crisis Number: 076 259 8780 Ella Kruger Private Practice: Crisis Number: 083 483 8255 Mendelle Mendelow Private Practice: Crisis Number: 082 444 3300 Joan Nathanson Private Practice:Crisis Number: 084 466 3790 AFM Executive Welfare Council - Umephi (Head office) Procare - Gauteng: Crisis Number: 0861 776 2273
Posted on Wed, Oct 17th 2012, 18:12


Hi am 7mnth preg n i want to give my baby for adoption and i want a close adoption i stay in houghton who can i talk to or what is the close angency i can visit.
Posted on Wed, Oct 17th 2012, 13:21


Miss K, thanks for making contact and being so brave to ask for help!! Please contact Adoption SA: 0800 864 658 or visit for social workers in East London who can help. You can also read this article for more information: All the best! xx
Posted on Wed, Oct 17th 2012, 11:36

miss k

I don't want this baby I'm still 4 months I don't know where to go for help I just read about the Closed adoption and it's what i want Where do I go in east london pls help me
Posted on Tue, Oct 16th 2012, 18:37

Rene Myburgh Schutte

My husband and I were chosen as adoptive parents but the the mom-to-be changed her mind. This was heartbreaking! We are registered on the register of adoptable parents, have a profile, the police clearance, etc but sadly, we still await a baby to adopt. We live in Betty's Bay. Would so appreciate a miracle of a birth mother choosing us as parents for her baby... xx
Posted on Tue, Oct 16th 2012, 15:12


hi i have son which is my wife's aunt's she gave him to us three years ago and this year my wife decide to get a divorce , i went to the local child welfare to see what rights do i have and they told me that i have no rights because my wife's has given her right to my son only ,this is after three and half being a father to him ,pls advise what to do
Posted on Tue, Oct 16th 2012, 12:42


Hi Im 29yr old white lady in Gauteng,Im 7months pregnand and want to give my unborn up for adoption. I need financial help to provide my own accomadation my email. [Lynn, please contact a social worker or agency ( to help you find suitable parents for your unborn. Unfortunately we can't post your details here. All the best of luck! xx - Editor]
Posted on Fri, Oct 5th 2012, 12:37


Hi! My husband and me want to adopt a white baby since we are struggling to have kids of our own for 7 years now. We have so much love to give and want to give a child a home with a lot of love and attention. Is there anyone who can assist us?
Posted on Thu, Sep 13th 2012, 20:08

Rene Barnard

Hi There My husband and I have been married for almost four years and would love nothing more than adoptiong a little angel, to raise as our own and give this angel a loving home with two loving parents and all the love and attention that he our she needs and wants
Posted on Mon, Jun 18th 2012, 15:03

linda koopman

Ek en my man wil graag n baba aaneem ons is nou all 10 jaar getrou maar my hart se verlange is on nkind so my uie groog te maak help ons asb
Posted on Thu, Jun 14th 2012, 02:58


My family and I are planning on adopting a sibling group through the U.S. foster system, but have recently decided we might want to also adopt a baby from South Africa. We would like to have the baby in as little time as possible, and we know most adoptions are very lengthy. We know Morrocco is 6-8 months to adopt a baby, what about South Africa? Thank you!
Posted on Tue, Jun 5th 2012, 00:13


My man en ek is al 20 jaar getroud ons het geen kinders nie ons is alby36 hy het sy eie besigheid ek werk ons is so gelukkig maar wil graag jou baba aaneem help ons asb ons wil so graag ons geluk en liefde met n baba deel en kom net nerens reg nie asb email my!!
Posted on Sat, Jun 2nd 2012, 10:35


Im a black lady frm pretoria and im 7months pregnant im looking for a loving couple to adopt my baby in an open adoption. U can contact me on [removed]
Posted on Tue, May 15th 2012, 22:32


Ons het n seuntjie aangeneem via n oop aanneming aangesien ons die ouers geken het. Dit was n lang en moeilike pad omdat die mamma dinge moeilik probeer maak het. Maar die Here weet wat Hy vir boetie wil he en ons het na n jaar en paar maande die saak gewen! Die aanneming is geregistreer en sy name klaar verander! Mammas kan gerus met my chat oor aanneming as hul wil!
Posted on Wed, Jan 18th 2012, 21:52

Hamied Salie

Hello, my wife and i have would love to adopt a baby,been married for 11 years and would love to know and feel the joy of holding our own litttle one,can you help us. Thank-you
Posted on Sat, Jan 7th 2012, 14:45


We adopted a little boy on 23/04/2009 , he was born 01/01/2009. I have laways considered myself a strong woman , but after only one round of insemination and one IVF , I could not see myself doing it again.The emotional strength that it takes ........... Now our son is going on 3 and beautiful , happy and healthy. He's had his challenges , developmentally and now a speech delay , but we have faith that Allah(God) has planned his course and plotted his road to triumph and success. We would not change him for the world , he's ours in every corner of our hearts , he take us to our "happy place" every night coming home from work and seeing his beautiful little face , with those cute spectacles, oooooooh , that's our son! My husband had reservations with adoption and said that he could not promise that he would love this little boy as much as he would his own , well it took our son less than 24 hours to win his dad over , now they are totally besotted with each other. He starts creche in Janauary 2012 and thinking about a sister for him to play with soon. I would recommend adopting a child to anyone , they fill that little space in your heart , you know , that space that longs for the touch of little chubby fingers.
Posted on Thu, Nov 24th 2011, 13:53

Chantalle Wilson

Hi there, Something you might consider including in an article on adoption is information on things like: - claiming UIF if you adopt a baby (I only found out I could too late) - right to maternity benefits if you adopt a baby - how medical aid works for an adopted child (and the Discovery Vitality Benefits for Adopted Babies - again I found out too late I qualified for these benefits) There is plenty information on the screening processes etc on the internet. But what benefits etc. you qualify for are not mentioned at all. Regards, Chantalle
Posted on Fri, Nov 18th 2011, 11:57

Chantalle Wilson

My husband and I chose to adopt our little girl and it was the best decision we ever made. She has taken over our world and holds a very special place in both our hearts. It was difficult for our families at first to accept that we had chosen to adopt, however, once they met her they all love her to bits (never had so many visits from family as this year ;)). We read up a lot to prepare for the process and found books to educate our parents on the process too. We were fortunate to meet the birth mother and spend time with her. And the day she placed my baby in my arms, was definitely one of the happiest days of my life. Our daughter has been in our care since she was four hours old and we have not looked back since - people keep telling me she looks just like me ... I just keep quiet and smile to myself :) The screening process is tough and sometimes feels like an invasion into your privacy ... However, sometimes, I just wish everyone had to experience that before having children. There are so many children out there who are born into circaumstances that are not acceptable ... I work with a children's home and see the damage that is done to children who are born to parents who are not able to cope with caring for them.
Posted on Thu, Nov 10th 2011, 17:27


I adopted a baby in 2010, she was 5 months at the time I brought her home. It took me years to finally start the process due to all the bureaucracy and red tape in the system. I wanted to do it through a private agency, but later decided against it and did it through the Jhb Welfare Services. As a single parent (widowed) and an 18 year old daughter, I thought I would not be considered, that the process would take even longer and frustrate me more, but to my surprise I was not discriminated against due to my marital status. I went through the motions, all the processes, felt despondent at times, but I never gave up. The whole process amazingly took 7 months, something I did not expect. On the day when I met my angel for the first time, I was told that if I don't want the baby, they would look for another baby. That really hurt me so much, because I felt it would be so unfair towards the baby and saw it as double rejection. I prayed alot about this and when I got the call to meet my baby, I was convinced that she was the baby God blessed me with. She is almost 20 months and an absolute joy! I started believing in the system and due to my experience, a few friends decided to follow because they could see the positive results.
Posted on Thu, Nov 10th 2011, 12:59


Alicia, if you want to give a child a home, why is the skin colour an issue? Surely God wants all children looked after & raised in a loving family, not just the elusive white baby? The bible talks about children being a blessing from the Lord, not just white children.
Posted on Tue, Sep 27th 2011, 07:30


Me and my husband are in the process of being screened as adoptive parents. We firmly believe that it takes an extremely good mother to give her child up for adoption. Clearly she shows an inner strength which very little of us have. It takes someone who really cares deeply about their child’s welfare to acknowledge that they cannot give the baby whatever is needed and provide that little treasure with the ground stones of growing up at a family that can do so. We sincerely believe that parent ship is a privilege that GOD will never deny anyone especially when the intended parents have pure motives for the child in their care. Although HE does not allow all of us to have one of our own I believe that it is part of HIS bigger plan. God knew that there will be helpless children in need and therefore had to keep some of HIS special children (adoptive parents), who HE knew will be capable to excel in taking care of these little ones. Although the stats are made clear to us and we understand the limitations of adopting a white baby especially when regarding the fact that I already do have two (nearly grown up 15 & 18) children from her previous marriage I believe that GOD will not take the chance away from my husband to have someone calling him daddy. He so dearly deserves to be called daddy. He will most definitely be the best daddy this world has ever seen. He is an extremely kind, generous, GOD Loving and dependable person who lived his life to serve GOD. Why would GOD not give him this? He will be any child's dream father. To make this worse we do not have thousands and thousands to spend on "buying" the favour of the birth mother. We do have a stable income and the ability to live comfortably but we do not have banks full of spare cash that waits to be used. I've read lot of messages from adoptive parents clearly stating that those with the most money get chosen first. In actual fact I believe that we are very settled and I know from taking care of my sister's baby during a difficult time she experienced that I now am much more relaxed and self confident in looking after a baby. The fact that I also do know what it is to have a child of your own are in actual fact making me believe that the baby we adopt should grow up with the truth. I will ensure to keep the birth mom updated if this is what she wants and also give her details to her biological child on a suitable age in order to prevent the placing of newspaper/huisgenoot articles in order to find each other. We fully believe that the birth mother suffered enough by giving up her baby and we will definitely consider her wishes for the babies future (within the law off cause and not to the expense of the little one) In our house there will definitely be love and cherishing in more than triplicate as the older brother and sister are as excited as us and will definitely spoil their little brother or sister rotten If GOD has a child booked for us no stats or human predictions will stop HIM from delivering that child to us. GOD surely knows that we will be wonderful parents who will be able to provide in all the needs of such little one in need. With constant love and attention any child can have a perfectly healthy emotional and physical childhood. In the end the main ingredients for any child to flourish are LOVE, discipline, Security and routine. We have been through the school of life. We are homely with no destructive habits and will be able to provide any child with all the above and a good measure of stability. We are secure in our knowledge of being able to bring up a little one to the satisfaction of any onlooker but most important to the approval of GOD. It does however sometimes get to us to know that the waiting list for white babies is extremely long and that chances are very slim. We already have all baby equipment and clothing for up to 2 years and the cot in our room ready this is how big our faith is but in the end we are human and then we take a dip of worry and doubt. The next day we get up again and start all over. Believing and praying. This is a roller coaster ride but believe me the day we get that little baby all the hardship will be forgotten immediately and joy will overflow the rest of our life’s. I would like to hear from: Other adoptive parents - maybe this will give me a bit of hope to hear your stories Mothers that gave up their babies or intends to do so - we've been told that most birth parents wants their child to be with a couple with no other children and that chances are that we will never be picked. In our case however our children is independent and soon to be out of the house going on with their own futures (don't worry we are still under 40. I also had my first child at young age) Your baby will therefore be even more treasured. We no longer go out to parties and will never leave the baby with baby sitters etc whilst younger couples are still very active with their own needs. I guess what I actually want to hear from you is if you would have considered us as potential parents for your child?
Posted on Tue, Jun 22nd 2010, 10:08


Children placed for adoption are NOT 'unwanted children'. Birthmothers WANT to parent their children. But, usually they are not able to provide a safe and stable home due to financial reasons. Therefore, they make an adoption plan to provide a better future to their child with another family. Ayone that calls these children UNWANTED does not understand adoption! It is a wrong, ignorant and hurtful comment. 'Unwanted children' are put in dumpsters or are killed through abortion - 'wanted children' are placed in loving homes through adoption.
Posted on Wed, Jun 16th 2010, 20:17


What will happen to the baby during the 60 days window/wating period. Does the baby stay with the adoptive parents after the birth mother give birth and her consent?
Posted on Fri, May 14th 2010, 12:14

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