"I gave birth at 34 weeks"

"I gave birth at 34 weeks"
 
 
 

"My name is Dezray Mason. I'm a first-time mom who was very keen to have natural birth. I was actually so against C-sections, and told my husband I was having natural no matter!

When it came to my 3rd trimester, I went to Cape Town (from the Lowveld) to prepare myself to have my baby there. My family and support were there.

I went for my next scan appointment, only to have the doc there say that he was not very happy with the outcome and that he was a bit concerned.

At 31 weeks I had .2 fluid around my baby. This was a concern, so I was put on bed rest and had to go back weekly for a check-up.

The next week nothing had changed, and my baby was still lying breach. I had told my doc how important it was for me to have a natural birth, and I was so sure my baba would turn and the bed rest would help.

At 34 weeks he set up an appointment for a foetal assessment. As we feared, my fluid was dropping and my baby was starving!

I was scheduled for a C-section at 34 weeks!

I had an epidural, and was awake for the birth. I was amazed at how quickly it all happened, and that my doc talked me through the whole thing! When he pulled baba out, the umbilical cord, which apparently was very short, was wrapped around her wrist.

She was born on 25 July 2011, weighing in at 2.080kg.

I didn't get to have the birth experience I wanted, but just listening to the advice from my doc, I saved my baby's life. And it really wasn't a bad experience at all.

Hopefully next time all will go as planned.... :)"

 
 
 
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Amelia Mathebula

I am a first time mother to a baby boy born on 29/12/12, I also wanted a natural birth no matter what but it didnt happen like I wanted to be, it was my regular checkup on the 29 of December I arrived and found out I was 3cm dilated, my gynae send me to hospital, when I arrive they first checked me and found out the where not happy with the heart beat ofmy baby, I was then send to theatre to do a csec, it was a success, they found out the baby has pup inside the amniotic water and if i'v try to push in the natural birth, the baby would have suck and ended up blocking his lungs with the stool. Glad I took that choice and savedy little boy
Posted on Wed, Mar 6th 2013, 11:47

portia

I had. C-section unplanned zizile was also lying brech at 37weeks I was scared she was born 2011 at 2.8 kg I had no choice also it was too late for her to turn back.At birth we learned she had DS that gave us another blow as the doctors never tested me while I was pregnant.I just gave birth again this time we ran all the tests but still had a c-section because I was told its high risk to do natural as I had complications the first time.
Posted on Wed, Mar 6th 2013, 10:36

Zanele

Ag xein, same thing happened to my sis hey. she so wanted a natural. her baby had not turned by 40th week and de cord was wrapped around her. But thank God, 9 days ago she had her little bundle of joy in her arms, thru a C-sec. God has his plans.
Posted on Wed, Mar 6th 2013, 10:26

Lorna Faye

I also went through the same experiance as Dezray, I always had a dream of natural birth bt unfortunatly thngs ddnt go as planned because I ws enduced and it was not successful so I had to go for C-section. Everythng ws soo fast. Hopefully with my 2nd baby I would be able to do it naturaly
Posted on Wed, Mar 6th 2013, 09:34

Cathy

Dezry u saved a life,i too wished to have a natural birth unfortunately i gave birth by ceaser at 43 weeks.i went to induction nd nuthing happened.i too dnt knw how it feels to give birth naturally.
Posted on Wed, Mar 6th 2013, 09:23

Khali

Agg shame Dezray, i two wanted a natural birth but because my baby was so lazy and tired i had to go for c-section,but hopefully next time it will be natural birth.
Posted on Tue, Jul 10th 2012, 14:47

Jennyfer

hi there i am now 7 months with the 3rd one...... lol i never learn was also against c section with the first also had to do one at 41 weeks. the second one was also born 2 weeks ahead of schedule and now the third one if she is anything like her brothers. it will also be a difficult c section
Posted on Sun, Dec 25th 2011, 22:39