What you should know about miscarriage

What you should know about miscarriage
 
 
 

What is a miscarriage?

Miscarriage is a word all pregnant women fear. Having a miscarriage means losing a pregnancy before 20 weeks. Sometimes called a spontaneous abortion, an embryo or foetus is delivered before it has any chance of surviving outside the uterus.

Miscarriage is fairly common, especially in the first trimester. It is thought that 50% of pregnancies miscarry after the conceptus (product of conception) has implanted in the wall of the uterus but before the woman has realised she is pregnant. These episodes are usually believed to be a heavy, late period.

Another 15% to 20% of recognised pregnancies that make it past 6 weeks after the last period may miscarry. The highest risk time for miscarriage is between the 12th and 14th week of pregnancy.

Why does a miscarriage happen?

A miscarriage can happen for many different reasons.

There is a genetic or chromosomal abnormality

The most common finding of early miscarriage is an abnormality in the development of the embryo. Research has shown that over 50% of these miscarriages have genetic or chromosomal abnormalities. These abnormalities are not thought to have any bearing on the health of future pregnancies.

External factors

External factors known as teratogens (radiation and some chemicals, drugs or medications) can also cause miscarriage. 90% of women go on to have a normal, healthy pregnancy after a single episode of miscarriage. Recurrent miscarriages, however, need investigation and evaluation.

Other possible causes of miscarriage include:

  • Unusual infections such as toxoplasmosis, listeria and syphilis
  • Genital or uterine infections
  • Uterine abnormality 
  • Deficiency in progesterone in early pregnancy
  • Maternal antibodies that disrupt the growth of the embryo and developing placenta
  • Maternal smoking
  • Alcohol consumption
  • Use of recreational drugs.

Warning signs of a miscarriage

  • Vaginal bleeding (light bleeding is fairly common in early pregnancy, but heavy painful blood loss is not)
  • Abdominal pain/cramps
  • Backache
  • Chills/fever

What to do if you think you are having a miscarriage

If you think that you are having a miscarriage, talk to your doctor immediately. In most cases there is nothing that you can do to stop it from happening. Ultrasound scans and blood tests may be done to assist your doctor in determining the next course of action.

What happens after a miscarriage has occurred

If you expel all of the products of conception and bleeding and cramping stops it may be all over. If everything is not expelled, it is necessary to undergo a D&C (dilatation and curettage). This involves minor surgery to clear the uterus of any leftover products that could cause pain, bloating, infection and bleeding.

If you are Rhesus negative

If you are Rhesus negative, you will need to receive anti-D immunoglobulin after miscarriage. If possible the miscarried embryo/foetus will be evaluated for chromosomal abnormalities or any other signs that could give insight as to why the miscarriage happened.

There is nothing you can do to prevent miscarriage

There is nothing you can do to prevent miscarriage, but there are factors that can lower your chances. Pre-conceptual planning goes a long way. Get fit and healthy before you fall pregnant. Visit the dentist, lose weight, stop smoking and drinking and start exercising. Take folic acid.

Once you are pregnant continue with your healthy lifestyle, stop taking prescribed medications or over-the-counter medication and discuss alternatives with your doctor. Rest and relax when you feel like it and have a positive state of mind.

It is natural for a woman having experienced a miscarriage to question herself and even blame herself for her loss. It’s a normal reaction to look for a reason and to think you may have done something wrong.

Many women blame stress, emotional upsets or physical activity for causing miscarriage and although it may be an influencing factor, these things usually do not cause miscarriage.

You may need counselling and guidance through this trying time. Speaking to other women who have been through the same thing often helps heal your emotional pain.  

 
 
 
Disclaimer: The advice on this site is for information purposes only. Please consult your health professional.

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Comments - 13 comments

Miria

Hi all. I'm still very emotional but the physical pain is even worse. I started miscarrying on Tuesday. I immediately went to my gynae, who confirmed I was losing the baby. He said I should go home & mother nature would take its course. He said the bleeding should be over by Sunday but if not, I should call him on Monday morning to do the D&C. Should I not have gone into hospital immediatel to do this? Its really difficult (physicall & emotionally) to be going through this for so long. And iso worried that something gets left behind in my body. Does anyone have any advice for me? I was 7 weeks pregnant but it was a "blighted" pregnancy, meaning the foetus had stopped developing and was a lot smaller than it should've been.
Posted on Fri, May 18th 2012, 11:48

patricia

I belive that as an adult everything is handled better I am a young teen who at 15 was going though hard times and between it all got pregnant I never really thought of the consequences of what could of happend and it never really hit me at the time I was staying with my boyfriend and being young and dumb all that crossed our minds was going out and getting wasted I ended up getting really sick with a bad fever and cough I kept telling myself it was going to pass eventually I whent home the next day I whent to the doctors and got checked for anything and everything I was releaved when my doctor sayd everything came back normal except one thing I had cought a UTI which kind of explained why I had been sick then she told me I'm sorry you are pregnant i didn't know how to feel about that I was confused and scared at the same time. When i whent to see how far along I was they had told me my hormone level wasn't where it had to be I thought everything would be ok as long as i ate healthy. Then on one of my last appointments the doctor told me I should be expecting to start bleeding within the few days when i asked why all she could say was that she wasn't too sure but that it wasnt my fault every night I prayed that nothing would happen and as she sayd it did I started spotting at work that's when my world came crashing down till this day I ask myself why me what could i have dont to prevent it then I tell myself maybe it was for my own good I am a better person since then.i feel that i am on the right path
Posted on Wed, May 2nd 2012, 08:43

Kaycha

I was 5 Weeks pregnant with my first when doctors told that I was pregnant...I had to go back the day latter because I started bleeding. They took my blood and told me I wasn't going to make it through the weekend with my pregnancy...I pushed out for 2 more weeks and had to go back to the hospital where they told me the pregnancy was already completely over...I have an appointment tomorrow to see my doctor and find out if I need a d and c or not...it's only been two days since I got that horrible news and I couldn't feel worse, seeing as how my husband is gone for a year working and I'm going through this alone...
Posted on Sun, Apr 29th 2012, 17:56

Jeannette

Hi , I found out i was pregnant on the 2/2/2012 we were so exited could not believe it as we have been trying for 4 years we have a beautiful little girl of 5 years but she needs a sibling , when we found out we were pregnant the doctor said baby is small we have to come back in 2 weeks time so when we went back we saw the heartbeat and we were so relieved the on the 13/03/2012 i had a pink discharge and the next morning a litlle blood and phoned my doctor and he said i should come in as my appointment was only for the 22/03/2012 when i went in to the docs office the mis happend in his office i was devastated and blamed myself i asked the doctor what did i do and he said it is not my fault i had a D/c done and it has been a week and a few days and i feel that i am ready to try again not to replace the baby as we can never replace that baby we lost but i want a nother child as i know i am a good mother and my husband is a good father and my daughter will be the best big sister ever when will be the best time to try as the doc told us we should try a.s.a.p again but when ?
Posted on Fri, Mar 23rd 2012, 10:35

Allas

Hi, I found out I was pregnant after over 2 years of trying (I'm 33 already) on 18 August. On the 23rd I went to my gynea as I experienced minor spotting, so he did a scan and confirmed the pregnancy...I was 6.4 weeks pregz and we were sooo excited. We saw the little heartbeat and the gynea still said congrats, everything looks great. On the 31st we had our first official scan and my husband was standing by my side, as the doc did an internal sonar only to find that there was no baby anymore...the gynea booked me in hospital for a D&C immediately... I just burst out in tears and couldn't believe it...It is the worst feeling ever and I've been very strong about it, telling myself it's not my fault and that it was just God's way of telling us it's not time yet. So, it's almost a month later and I haven't had my period yet, hopefully it will arrive soon so we can start trying again. I feel with everyone of you and pray that we will all be blessed with a healthy baby next time. I quit smoking 5 months before the pregnancy, but am extremely dissapointed in myself for starting again a week after the whole thing. I think I'll just get over everything for a while and set a date to quit in a month's time. I am just glad that I had the privelage of being pregnant, even if it was just for a short while. I really hope it will happen again and this time be for the full term and have a healthy baby - we have so much love to give and this is truly the only thing I want in life...ok, I feel better, I've cleansed my heart by chatting about it. x
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Posted on Wed, Aug 3rd 2011, 19:14

Jackie

I found out on the 13th of April that i was pregnant. My husband and I have only been married for 6 weeks. It was quiet soon but we couldn't have been more excited. On Friday (good friday, ha ha) i woke up bleeding. I knew what had happened but was just hoping that it wouldn't be true. unfortunately it was and i really struggled for the next 2 days. I am feeling much better today and have decided that i am going to get fit, stop smoking and drinking and hopefully next time, real soon, everything will be fine. i kept telling my husband that it was God's way of telling you something was wrong, it just wasn't meant to be. It really does help to hear that you are not alone but i really wouldn't wish this pain on anyone. It was the worst experience ever but these things make you stronger. I am really excited for the future as i know we will have a precious little one sometime soon. Good luck to you all!
Posted on Mon, Apr 25th 2011, 18:16

Candice

a month ago I found out I was 4 weeks pregnant. 2 Days after I found out I was pregnant I started spotting. The doctor put my on hormone tablets and the bleeding stopped straight away. We then went for a scan a week later and everything was perfect. But the day after the scan I started bleeding very badly with clots. We went straight to the hospital where they then did a scan and found out that the baby was still perfect and my cervex was still closed. I stayed in the hospital for the night but the bleeding just got worse. The doctor did a scan the next morning again and there was no baby so he sent me to the ER for a D & C. My question is how long should I wait before trying to conceive again as we really want another baby
Posted on Wed, Feb 9th 2011, 08:06

Jabu

I had two miscariagies in January last year and another one in september the last one was at 28 weeks. Now i am not sure whether to continue trying or just give up.
Posted on Sat, Jan 1st 2011, 14:27

Joslyn Louw

About 2 years ago I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks. It was still early days but having a miscarriage at any stage is always heartbreaking. I started bleeding in the early morning, phoned my gynae and he told me to come in right away. He did an internal on me, saw nothing inside the womb but did notice fluid by my ovaries. He suggested I have a D&C and while I was under he did a Laparoscopy to find I had endometriosis which may have caused my miscarriage. He cleaned me out and removed all signs of my endometriosis. I now have a healthy and very happy 1 year old son!
Posted on Tue, Jul 27th 2010, 12:28

Alice

I was 6weeks pregnant and had just been to the doc when I was 5 weeks preg to confirm the pregnancy it was the most exciting news that we found when teh doc confirmed my pregnancy, althought the doc was somehow not really happy about the growth he told us to come back in 3 weeks, at 6 weeks I spotted blood on my liner I was devastated and cried called my gynae no answer I ended up going to hospital the next thing I know is that the baby is threating to abort, I asked the doctor what can you do because the baby hasn't aborted yet it is just threating, she told me that there is nothing they can do, all she did was prescribe me panados for pains and told me to come back as soon as I see blood clots, within an hour or 2 later, I saw blood clots was then addmitted and was taken to surgery for D&C, that was my worst experience ever I couldn't stop crying as I was in so much unbearable pain, but with my husband and family by my side surporting me I managed to get through the loss even though it wasn't easy no matter what they say or tell you that it's not the end of the world at that point in time it feels like it, we tried again and I'm now 24 weeks preg and gong strong...... at first I blammed myself my husband blammed himself we ended up blamming the hospital and my gynae thinking that they were supposed to do something about to save our angel we even wanted to go the route of suing them, but with praying and the support that we got all was well! It get's easier with time and when you talk about it....... I never thought I would reach the stage where I am at right now I didn't even think or want to try again.... God is great.
Posted on Tue, Jul 27th 2010, 09:14

elana

Hi, this is my first time that im talking about this. I was 9 weeks pregnant with twins. Everything was going well until i started with bleeding. I went for scans and everything was ok. A week after i went for another scan and still everthing was ok. I was on bedrest the whole time. The bleeding got less. Thinking the worst was behind. The next i remember is being admitted in hosp. I lost both my babies. I thought that this is the end. My heart was broken. It is now 6 weeks and God has realy help me through this time. I have a loving and understanding husband who stood by me all the time. I said to myself that i killed them. Now only i realised that it is not true. We don't have the answers, but God does. You are blessed to have 2 boys already. Be strong! You will get through it!!!
Posted on Thu, Apr 1st 2010, 14:12

lizette

hi there to all i am new at this and would love to hear from other woman. i am turning 31 in april i already have two beautiful boys and so two weeks back i found out that i was pregnant again so 7 weeks but then i spotted some bleeding went to my dr and he told me that i am having a miscarriage sent me to a gyno in alberton he did a scan and couldnt see anything he told me that it is already busy coming out,all the way back home me and my husband was defestated for our loss,i dont know how to feel,when to try again,i am so confused it feels as if it was my fault. Please i need someone to talk to otherwise i will go crazy.
Posted on Sat, Mar 27th 2010, 15:14
 
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